Last weekend I went on a woman’s retreat. Nine of us shared
an unstructured two days in a cabin in a lovely little town in Alaska, eating
too much snack food, playing board games far into the night, and talking.
I’m an introvert. Most writers are, to one degree or
another. Writing is a solitary exercise and it’s easy to populate my world with
imaginary characters from my books and the books I read. It’s good for me to
spend time with a group of real woman, interacting, listening, and sharing one
bathroom.
Life isn’t smooth for all of them. Some of these women are
facing custody battles, health problems, depression, neighborhood feuds, financial
difficulties, and romantic friction, but their courage is ongoing, and they haven't lost their sense of fun.
These are strong women. I wish I could write each of them a
happy ending, but they don’t need it. They will soldier on and eventually create
their own happy endings, because the only alternative is to give up, and that's not what these women do. I'm honored to call them friends.
I love your next to the last sentence. It sounds like a theme to some of your stories...
ReplyDeleteThanks. They're a great bunch of ladies. I guess everyone has those hard times, and if they can't avoid them, they just have to get through them. "Just keep swimming ..."
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